QUOTE(Sakiri @ Sep 23 2018, 05:13 PM)

Also our wedding bands don't fit anymore and the wedding hasn't happened yet!
I'm looking into silicone ring sizers. To buy us time until we decide if we need to resize or not.
His fingers fluctuate a ton(kidney patient) so I'm leery on resizing his, and mine might be too tight in summer if I resize it. Sighs.
His is almost two sizes too big now. Both fit perfectly in store when we picked them up.

What to do.
Adjusting the ring sizes means they're still a fixed size, and if your problem is fluctuating finger sizes, it won't solve anything. Leave the size too big, and you can still get it on the finger. Too small is a problem. especially for the ceremony. So make sure they'll work for that, and worry later.
Or go for nose rings, instead.