QUOTE(Elisabeth Hollow @ Feb 23 2014, 02:31 PM)

Gently grab her chin with one hand, and her cheek with the other and lean in. Use the hand on her cheek and slid it to the back of her neck and pull her towards you.
If there's resistance, stop. If not, kiss her. Maybe she's waiting doe you to be more assertive, or she's not too interested. Try being gentle if you haven't already. Sometimes something as "simple" as kissing can be a big deal if y'all haven't done it yet. If you have, then maybe she isnt too crazy about your technique. I had a boyfriend who likes to just go all tongue immediately, when I prefer the short, sweet kisses until things heat up, then tongue. Tell her to kiss you the way she likes to be kissed.
Thanks for the response, Liz. I did try a bit of kinesthetic or as we male Initiated Nerds refer to as Kino Escalation(yes, you may roll your eyes at this). And I did it before we dated.But there was still that barrier that had me a bit discouraged.
Thankfully, just yesterday the issue was resolved a bit. It wasn't disinterest but merely an overwhelming sense of shyness masked by a cold shoulder. I can't be
that intimidating, can I?
But yes, things are fantastic now. Going better. Since I'm going back to the USA for a month, I better do as much as I can with her and cement our relationship.
QUOTE(mirocu @ Feb 23 2014, 04:42 PM)

I donīt see kissing as such a big deal. Or anything, really. I just find it all.... boring

You. Suck.

We're the complete opposite. I love it. I could kiss for hours and hours. I actually have done so for a period of three hours before and I still had not got tired. Unbelievable on my part. Something of child's play compared to that couple that kissed for 58 hours, 35 minutes and 58 seconds . . . .
But since I love working out, a passionate kiss can burn 1-3 calories per minute. Wow. Imagine hours of it. Hell of a workout.

I need help!