I'm still alive for now! XD
QUOTE(Darkness Eternal @ Feb 22 2014, 11:10 AM)

Personally, I've been taught to NEVER ask a girl if I can kiss her. As the male, I must naturally lead. But damn, she's just driving me nuts with her aloofness. I don't want to go in caveman style. /sigh
I can do well with other girls but with one that's official I can't get my stuff right.
Gently grab her chin with one hand, and her cheek with the other and lean in. Use the hand on her cheek and slid it to the back of her neck and pull her towards you.
If there's resistance, stop. If not, kiss her. Maybe she's waiting doe you to be more assertive, or she's not too interested. Try being gentle if you haven't already. Sometimes something as "simple" as kissing can be a big deal if y'all haven't done it yet. If you have, then maybe she isnt too crazy about your technique. I had a boyfriend who likes to just go all tongue immediately, when I prefer the short, sweet kisses until things heat up, then tongue. Tell her to kiss you the way she likes to be kissed.