QUOTE(mALX @ Sep 23 2015, 06:29 PM)

Urgh, is this the new place you all moved to (to get away from that other neighbor that wouldn't let you build a driveway?)
We haven´t moved at all, still the same cottage.
QUOTE(mALX @ Sep 23 2015, 06:29 PM)

I am guessing the family can't agree to keep ownership as it stands and just allow that cousin use of it as she likes?
My dad and my aunt had an agreement and all was fair, but it wasn´t enough land for my cousin (who doesn´t even own anything yet).
QUOTE(mALX @ Sep 23 2015, 06:29 PM)

as long as the trade was fair and equitable on both sides and neither side has any cause to feel "taken advantage of," why is she demanding more?
She always wanted more land than my dad and his sister agreed to. Apparently she wants to build a lot and bring people there. My cousin is calling the shots at their end, not my aunt. What´s even worse they don´t even keep an open dialogue with my dad

At this point, with everything around us, a move to another cottage would feel like a relief.