QUOTE(Lady Syl @ May 4 2011, 10:09 AM)

I think it's time I get back into anime--I haven't watched a lot of it since high school, and I've been missing out... With kids, most of what I see on my tv anymore is Disney cartoons and Curious George (which is fine, but...).
Be careful, as a lot of anime is definitely
not for children. If you want something kid-friendly, try
Card Captor Sakura. It is very sweet and cute and even the antagonists are not really bad, just misunderstood. Even though it is definitely a kid show, it is still one of my all-time favorites. Plus, Sakura is just
incredibly adorable!For grown-up anime, it depends on what you are most interested in. I mentioned
Claymore a while back, which has a lot of violence, but a very strong theme of humanity underneath it all.
Crest of the Stars, Banner of the Stars, Banner of the Stars 2 are also very good. Look back to see my post on them too.
Twelve Kindgoms has a goodly amount of action, especially at the start, but is seriously into character development. In fact, the three main characters are not too particularly likeable at first. But the more you see them grow as the story goes on, the more you cheer for them, precisely because they are becoming better people. It is basically an otherworld fantasy story, with sword fighting and magical creatures.
In spite of its silly name,
Gunslinger Girl is excellent. Set in modern Europe, it is basically a spy thriller with sci-fi cyberware. Again it is primarily a character piece, and is rather dark and depressing, when you learn what has been done to the main characters. They are all girls, who have been brainwashed and cybered up to become assassins.
Ghost in the Shell: Standalone Complex was decent, although the plot gets a bit fuzzy at times. It is a futuristic sci-fi show, with robots, cloaking devices, cyberbrains, and lots of hacking. It is mostly action, but does make as stab at what the meaning of existence and individuality really is. Why the Major is walking around in lingere all the time is beyond me though. Oh wait, teenage fanboys , that's why...
The Good Witch of the West was a neat little series. It is a fantasy story, swords, knights, princesses, and creepy magicians. Mainly a political intrigue/mystery story with a bit of character development. It is the only time I have seen actual slash fiction about anime characters
in the anime itself (which was quite hilarious!)
Witchhunter Robin was a good one. Set in the modern world, it is about people with psychic powers, not witches. A bit predictable, but with good characters, action, and intrigue.
Scrapped Princess was also decent. It is a mix of action/characterization. While it starts out strong, it kind of loses steam later in the show when you figure out what is really going on. They mixed genres a bit too much I think. Going from what seemed a straight fantasy story to a science fiction one.
Vision of Escaflowne was also good. Pretty much your basic girl travels from earth to a sci-fi world with mecha, meets a boy, and they have a grand adventure story. Lots of action, some romance and character work. The very ending was just blah though. Still, it is worth the ride to get there.
Fate/Stay Night is a magical story, but set in the modern world. The premise is that every decade there is a magical tournament, and the winner gets a wish. The losers die. Each magician can summon a servant, who are heroes from past ages, such as Hercules, King Arthur, Alexander the Great, etc... Has some neat turns to it, and is a fun ride.
All of these above feature female characters in either the lead role, or at least in strong roles. So if you like seeing girls drive the story and be more than just the protagonist's girlfriend, any of these will work for you. I believe Netflix has them all as well.