Ah! What an apt discussion you have brought up!
Funny thing is, during my earliest days of Oblivion (my first Elder Scrolls) I remember just being blown away by the world, all its NPCs, the fact that NPCs actually
went different places, all over the world sometimes. Particularly, I remember following Thoronir around during the Market quest. Was amazed he went from his shop into different parts of the I.C. After years of console games in which NPCs mostly stand around, (unless they attack) I was thoroughly amazed that so many people could simply live actual lives, etc..
As Thoronir walked all around the city I have a vague memory of the Quest Arrow changing from
red to
blue to
green. At the time I had no idea what this meant; I was too impatient to read the game manual.

Once I understood what was happening, over time Quest Arrows began to bother me. Eventually (as many of you know) I began putting electrical tape over the compass, directly on the TV screen. Because wasn't I supposed to be the one figuring out all this stuff, while roleplaying my character is the one actually doing so?
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But it's over to you now. What approach to quests do you like or dislike? Do you like it structured or do you prefer to be told to go off and do stuff?
So yes, I prefer Initiative.
As for your mod, I am saying: do not compromise. As Bethesda themselves well know, you cannot please everybody. And adding Markers in to appease those who are disappointed might cause issues, not to mention a ton of extra work.... and there would
still be some folks who are not pleased.
One solution could be to write up a Walkthrough/Cheats guide for those who want it. I can see you've already considered this, as well. This is the lesser evil, in my opinion, and it seems you don't wish to do this (which is fine.. it's your work after all). But one thing you do NOT wanna do, again my opinion, is compromise all the way to Quest Markers. Because doing so could affect your Reputation. I like that you've chosen to go for a Reputation for mod-making which is Challenging. Don't bend to the lazier folks' wishes, is what I say. Over time, those who appreciate challenge will be attracted to your ideals.
Thank you. *sits down*